A Real Life Guide to Swinging with Style (Paperback)

A Real-Life Guide to Swinging with Style is the unapologetic, practical, and often hilarious guide to the modern swinging lifestyle. Written by Fantastic MrFucks, founder of the UK’s Club Utopia, this book blends honest advice, consent culture, sex-positive sass, and hard-earned wisdom into one must-read manual for couples and curious minds.

Whether you’re just dipping a toe or diving in deep, you’ll find chapters on jealousy, etiquette, event types, private meets, kink crossover, and the secret sauce of what makes someone unforgettable in the lifestyle scene.

It’s the guide that doesn’t talk down to you — it lifts you up with real talk, wicked humour, and practical tools for exploring with confidence and style.

Live curious. Swing stylishly.

Welcome to Swinging with style.

Blurb:

This isn’t another awkward manual written by someone who’s never stepped foot in a club. This is your honest, hilarious, and unfiltered backstage pass from someone who’s been there, done that.

This book will walk you through every juicy, awkward, thrilling, confusing, and mind-blowingly sexy step of the swinging journey – From your first “maybe we should try it…” to navigating group nights, boundaries, and what to do if someone tries to lick you before saying hello.

Inside You’ll Learn:

• How to actually start swinging without feeling like a twat
• What really happens behind the velvet ropes of clubs and private meets
• How to handle jealousy, consent, confidence, and curious stares
• Why being cheeky, clean, and kind is the ultimate turn-on

Whether you’re a solo unicorn, a coupled-up newbie, or just swing-curious and clutching a bottle of lube in panic-this book has your back (and possibly your front).

Come inside. The vibe is cheeky. The people are gorgeous.